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Films for a Love That Was Real and Wrong at the Same Time

These films were chosen by the Moviepiq editorial team for when a love that was real but wrong. No forced resolution. These films sit with the feeling rather than rush past it.

Films for a love that was real and wrong at the same time. Both true simultaneously. Most frameworks only have room for one.

You have the thing held at the right distance. Close enough to know it's real, far enough that it can't touch you directly, and the irony is the tool that maintains the gap. It is a legitimate coping mechanism and it has served you well and these films know how to work with it rather than against it. They will find you anyway, not by breaking through the detachment but by sliding in underneath it, the way the real things always do when you've gotten too good at keeping them out.

Amélie movie poster
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2001 · 122min · ★★★☆☆ 6.7/10

At a tiny Parisian café, the adorable yet painfully shy Amélie accidentally discovers a gift for helping others. Soon Amelie is spending her days as a matchmaker, guardian angel, and all-around do-gooder. But when she bumps into a handsome stranger, will she find the courage to b

Smart enough to hold at arm's length while still doing something real. You can stay behind the glass and it will still find you.

Keeps the distance

Casablanca movie poster
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1943 · 102min · ★★★★☆ 7.7/10

In Casablanca, Morocco in December 1941, a cynical American expatriate meets a former lover, with unforeseen complications.

It knows what you are doing and does not make you feel bad about it. The irony is part of the furniture here.

Smart enough to hold

American Gangster movie poster
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2007 · 157min · ★★★★☆ 7.9/10

Loosely based on the criminal career of Frank Lucas, a gangster from La Grange, North Carolina, who smuggled heroin into the United States on American service planes returning from the Vietnam War, before being detained by a task force led by Newark Detective Richie Roberts.

The film has enough wit to keep your defenses comfortable and enough truth to slip through anyway.

Finds the gap anyway

A Clockwork Orange movie poster
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1971 · 137min · ★★★☆☆ 7.3/10

In a near-future Britain, young Alexander DeLarge and his pals get their kicks beating and raping anyone they please. When not destroying the lives of others, Alex swoons to the music of Beethoven. The state, eager to crack down on juvenile crime, gives an incarcerated Alex the o

It will not break through the detachment. It will just remind you, quietly, that the detachment is sitting on something.

Works with the coat on

Smart enough to hold the distance. True enough to find the gap in it anyway.

Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind movie poster
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2004 · 108min · ★★★★☆ 8.2/10

Joel Barish, heartbroken that his girlfriend underwent a procedure to erase him from her memory, decides to do the same. However, as he watches his memories of her fade away, he realises that he still loves her, and may be too late to correct his mistake.

Smart enough to hold at arm's length while still doing something real. You can stay behind the glass and it will still find you.

Keeps the distance

Gabriel's Inferno: Part II movie poster
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2020 · 106min · ★★★☆☆ 7.3/10

Professor Gabriel Emerson finally learns the truth about Julia Mitchell's identity, but his realization comes a moment too late. Julia is done waiting for the well-respected Dante specialist to remember her and wants nothing more to do with him. Can Gabriel win back her heart bef

It knows what you are doing and does not make you feel bad about it. The irony is part of the furniture here.

Smart enough to hold

Red, White & Royal Blue movie poster
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2023 · 118min · ★★★★☆ 7.9/10

After an altercation between Alex, the president's son, and Britain's Prince Henry at a royal event becomes tabloid fodder, their long-running feud now threatens to drive a wedge in U.S./British relations. When the rivals are forced into a staged truce, their icy relationship beg

The film has enough wit to keep your defenses comfortable and enough truth to slip through anyway.

Finds the gap anyway

Close to the Horizon movie poster
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2019 · 117min · ★★★☆☆ 6.4/10

Jessica knows exactly what her life is supposed to look like and where it takes her. But then she meets Danny. He has a complicated past and could confuse all their plans. Jessica has to decide.

It will not break through the detachment. It will just remind you, quietly, that the detachment is sitting on something.

Works with the coat on

The Whale movie poster
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2022 · 117min · ★★★★☆ 8.1/10

A reclusive English teacher suffering from severe obesity attempts to reconnect with his estranged teenage daughter for one last chance at redemption.

Smart enough to hold at arm's length while still doing something real. You can stay behind the glass and it will still find you.

Keeps the distance

Gabriel's Inferno movie poster
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2020 · 122min · ★★★★☆ 8.2/10

An intriguing and sinful exploration of seduction, forbidden love, and redemption, Gabriel's Inferno is a captivating and wildly passionate tale of one man's escape from his own personal hell as he tries to earn the impossible--forgiveness and love.

It knows what you are doing and does not make you feel bad about it. The irony is part of the furniture here.

Smart enough to hold

20th Century Girl movie poster
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2022 · 119min · ★★★★☆ 7.6/10

In 1999, a teen girl keeps close tabs on a boy in school on behalf of her deeply smitten best friend - then she gets swept up in a love story of her own.

The film has enough wit to keep your defenses comfortable and enough truth to slip through anyway.

Finds the gap anyway

Shoplifters movie poster
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2018 · 120min · ★★★★☆ 7.9/10

In the outskirts of Tokyo, a poor but close-knit group living on the fringes of society survives through shoplifting and odd jobs. When Osamu and his son take in a neglected young girl, their already fragile existence begins to unravel. As the family grows attached to her, buried

It will not break through the detachment. It will just remind you, quietly, that the detachment is sitting on something.

Works with the coat on

You can stay behind the glass. They'll find you anyway.

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