● Trending in the US
MOVIEPIQ · RELATIONAL MOMENTS

Films for When Someone Who Matters Has Gone Silent

These films were chosen by the Moviepiq editorial team for when left on read by someone who matters. No forced resolution. These films sit with the feeling rather than rush past it.

Films for when someone who matters has gone quiet. Not just anyone : someone whose silence means something.

You go back through the conversation. Not this one. The old ones, from before, when they responded, when there was something real moving back and forth between you. The nostalgia is built from screenshots and memory, from the texture of what it felt like to be in actual contact with this person, and you are comparing it to the current silence in a way that is not helping and that you cannot stop. These films don't know about your read receipts. But they know about the gap between when something was working and when it wasn't, and they know how long that gap can feel.

Three Colors: Red movie poster
1
1994 · 100min · ★★★★☆ 8.0/10

Part-time model Valentine unexpectedly befriends a retired judge after she runs over his dog. At first, the grumpy man shows no concern about the dog, and Valentine decides to keep it. But the two form a bond when she returns to his house and catches him listening to his neighbor

It holds a register of warmth that belongs to an earlier time. Close enough to the feeling you're reaching for that you can borrow it for a while.

Safe to go backward

The Cure movie poster
2
1995 · 97min · ★★★★☆ 8.0/10

Erik, a loner, finds a friend in Dexter, an eleven-year-old boy with AIDS. They vow to find a cure for AIDS together and save Dexter's life in an eventful summer.

The texture of this film is familiar in the way old photographs are familiar. It gives you somewhere to put the tenderness that has nowhere else to go.

Holds the past carefully

Once Upon a Time in America movie poster
3
1984 · 229min · ★★★★☆ 7.8/10

A former Prohibition-era Jewish gangster returns to the Lower East Side of Manhattan over thirty years later, where he once again must confront the ghosts and regrets of his old life.

It goes backward in the right way. Not nostalgic for nostalgia's sake, but honest about what it felt like when the thing you're missing was still there.

Warmth without demand

A Brighter Summer Day movie poster
4
1991 · 237min · ★★★★☆ 7.8/10

A boy experiences first love, friendships and injustices growing up in 1960s Taiwan.

The warmth of this film is specific and it is real and it doesn't require you to explain why you needed it.

Real enough to borrow

The films that follow lean into the texture of memory. They know what you are looking for in the past.

Heat movie poster
5
1995 · 170min · ★★★★☆ 8.1/10

Obsessive master thief Neil McCauley leads a top-notch crew on various daring heists throughout Los Angeles while determined detective Vincent Hanna pursues him without rest. Each man recognizes and respects the ability and the dedication of the other even though they are aware t

It holds a register of warmth that belongs to an earlier time. Close enough to the feeling you're reaching for that you can borrow it for a while.

Safe to go backward

Nostalgia movie poster
6
1983 · 124min · ★★★★☆ 7.6/10

Russian poet Andrei Gorchakov journeys through Italy with his interpreter Eugenia to research the life of an 18th-century Russian composer who once lived abroad. Isolated and consumed by an unrelenting longing for his homeland, Andrei becomes drawn to Domenico, a radical mystic o

The texture of this film is familiar in the way old photographs are familiar. It gives you somewhere to put the tenderness that has nowhere else to go.

Holds the past carefully

Come and See movie poster
7
1985 · 142min · ★★★★☆ 8.5/10

The invasion of a village in Belarus by German forces sends young Florya into the forest to join the weary Resistance fighters, against his family's wishes. There he meets a girl, Glasha, who accompanies him back to his village. On returning home, Florya finds his family and fell

It goes backward in the right way. Not nostalgic for nostalgia's sake, but honest about what it felt like when the thing you're missing was still there.

Warmth without demand

The Usual Suspects movie poster
8
1995 · 106min · ★★★★☆ 8.5/10

Held in an L.A. interrogation room, Verbal Kint attempts to convince the feds that a mythic crime lord, Keyser Soze, not only exists, but was also responsible for drawing him and his four partners into a multi-million dollar heist that ended with an explosion in San Pedro harbor

The warmth of this film is specific and it is real and it doesn't require you to explain why you needed it.

Real enough to borrow

Farewell My Concubine movie poster
9
1993 · 171min · ★★★☆☆ 7.1/10

In an epic tale of theater, gender, love and class, two Beijing opera actors navigate political turmoil as their friendship evolves over decades.

It holds a register of warmth that belongs to an earlier time. Close enough to the feeling you're reaching for that you can borrow it for a while.

Safe to go backward

The Color Purple movie poster
10
1985 · 154min · ★★★☆☆ 6.4/10

An epic tale spanning forty years in the life of Celie, an African-American woman living in the South who survives incredible abuse and bigotry. After Celie's abusive father marries her off to the equally debasing 'Mister' Albert Johnson, things go from bad to worse, leaving Celi

The texture of this film is familiar in the way old photographs are familiar. It gives you somewhere to put the tenderness that has nowhere else to go.

Holds the past carefully

Dead Poets Society movie poster
11
1989 · 129min · ★★★★☆ 8.2/10

At an elite, old-fashioned boarding school in New England, a passionate English teacher inspires his students to rebel against convention and seize the potential of every day, courting the disdain of the stern headmaster.

It goes backward in the right way. Not nostalgic for nostalgia's sake, but honest about what it felt like when the thing you're missing was still there.

Warmth without demand

Mishima: A Life in Four Chapters movie poster
12
1985 · 121min · ★★★☆☆ 6.4/10

A fictional account of the life of Japanese author Yukio Mishima, combining dramatizations of three of his novels and a depiction of the events of November 25th, 1970.

The warmth of this film is specific and it is real and it doesn't require you to explain why you needed it.

Real enough to borrow

You can't go back. You can get close. These are close.

From the Blog

READ Movies to Watch When Lonely
READ Movies When You Just Got Dumped
READ Movies When You Miss Someone

More Like This

Same Situation, Different Approach

Left On Read By Someone Who Matters – Intellectualizing The GriefLeft On Read By Someone Who Matters – Ironic DetachmentLeft On Read By Someone Who Matters – Productive DistractionLeft On Read By Someone Who Matters – Spite Driven MotivationLeft On Read By Someone Who Matters – Dissociative Comfort SeekingLeft On Read By Someone Who Matters – Instead Of TherapyLeft On Read By Someone Who Matters – Wallowing In Righteous Anger

Related Emotional States

For When You Can't Sleep at 3am

You Might Also Like

DEEPER Emotionally Numb
EDITORIAL Movies to Watch When Lonely
Tell us one film you love - we'll find your next one.TRY IT