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Films for When You Love Someone You Cannot Reach

Every film here was picked because it works for when loving someone you cant reach. The editorial team picks for emotional honesty over comfort or spectacle.

Films for when the person you love is present and still somehow unreachable. Curated for the specific loneliness of loving through glass.

The fact of them is always somewhere in the room with you, and you have found that the best way to live with that is to keep the room full of other things. The productivity is not just work: it is the management of the space they occupy when you're not moving, the containment of a feeling that gets too large when you give it room. You keep the days full. You keep the forward motion constant. These films are for the evenings when that stops working, when the task is finished and the feeling has been waiting, patient, for exactly this.

Amélie movie poster
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2001 · 122min · ★★★☆☆ 6.7/10

At a tiny Parisian café, the adorable yet painfully shy Amélie accidentally discovers a gift for helping others. Soon Amelie is spending her days as a matchmaker, guardian angel, and all-around do-gooder. But when she bumps into a handsome stranger, will she find the courage to b

It holds your attention at exactly the right level. Demanding enough that the loop cannot find a foothold, generous enough that it does not feel like work.

Full hands, quiet mind

Toy Story 4 movie poster
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2019 · 100min · ★★★★☆ 8.1/10

Woody has always been confident about his place in the world, devoted to taking care of his kid:whether that's Andy or Bonnie. But after Bonnie creates a reluctant new toy called "Forky", a road trip adventure alongside old and new friends challenges everything Woody believes abo

Full enough to keep the front of your brain occupied. The thing you are working around will still be there later, but later is not now.

Keeps the front occupied

Cinema Paradiso movie poster
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1988 · 124min · ★★★★☆ 8.3/10

A filmmaker recalls his childhood, when he fell in love with the movies at his village's theater and formed a deep friendship with the theater's projectionist.

The right kind of busy. This film puts something in your hands and keeps it there until you are ready to set it down.

Right level of demanding

American Gangster movie poster
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2007 · 157min · ★★★★☆ 7.9/10

Loosely based on the criminal career of Frank Lucas, a gangster from La Grange, North Carolina, who smuggled heroin into the United States on American service planes returning from the Vietnam War, before being detained by a task force led by Newark Detective Richie Roberts.

Exactly what distraction is supposed to be: a world complete enough to be in, undemanding enough to rest inside.

The bridge

Full enough to keep the loop from finding you. Just.

Impossible Things movie poster
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2021 · 88min · ★★★☆☆ 7.3/10

After the death of her abusive husband, Matilde finds her new best friend in Miguel, her young, insecure, and disoriented neighbor.

It holds your attention at exactly the right level. Demanding enough that the loop cannot find a foothold, generous enough that it does not feel like work.

Full hands, quiet mind

Gabriel's Inferno: Part II movie poster
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2020 · 106min · ★★★☆☆ 7.3/10

Professor Gabriel Emerson finally learns the truth about Julia Mitchell's identity, but his realization comes a moment too late. Julia is done waiting for the well-respected Dante specialist to remember her and wants nothing more to do with him. Can Gabriel win back her heart bef

Full enough to keep the front of your brain occupied. The thing you are working around will still be there later, but later is not now.

Keeps the front occupied

Shoplifters movie poster
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2018 · 120min · ★★★★☆ 7.9/10

In the outskirts of Tokyo, a poor but close-knit group living on the fringes of society survives through shoplifting and odd jobs. When Osamu and his son take in a neglected young girl, their already fragile existence begins to unravel. As the family grows attached to her, buried

The right kind of busy. This film puts something in your hands and keeps it there until you are ready to set it down.

Right level of demanding

Past Lives movie poster
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2023 · 106min · ★★★☆☆ 6.7/10

After decades apart, childhood friends Nora and Hae Sung are reunited in New York for one fateful weekend as they confront notions of destiny, love, and the choices that make a life.

Exactly what distraction is supposed to be: a world complete enough to be in, undemanding enough to rest inside.

The bridge

In This Corner of the World movie poster
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2016 · 130min · ★★★★☆ 7.6/10

Japan, 1943, during World War II. Young Suzu leaves her village near Hiroshima to marry and live with her in-laws in Kure, a military harbor. Her creativity to overcome deprivation quickly makes her indispensable at home. Inhabited by an ancestral wisdom, Suzu impregnates the sim

It holds your attention at exactly the right level. Demanding enough that the loop cannot find a foothold, generous enough that it does not feel like work.

Full hands, quiet mind

CODA movie poster
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2021 · 112min · ★★★★☆ 7.9/10

As a CODA (Child of Deaf Adults), Ruby is the only hearing person in her deaf family. When the family's fishing business is threatened, Ruby finds herself torn between pursuing her love of music and her fear of abandoning her parents.

Full enough to keep the front of your brain occupied. The thing you are working around will still be there later, but later is not now.

Keeps the front occupied

Your Name. movie poster
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2016 · 106min · ★★★☆☆ 7.3/10

High schoolers Mitsuha and Taki are complete strangers living separate lives. But one night, they suddenly switch places. Mitsuha wakes up in Taki’s body, and he in hers. This bizarre occurrence continues to happen randomly, and the two must adjust their lives around each other.

The right kind of busy. This film puts something in your hands and keeps it there until you are ready to set it down.

Right level of demanding

Ride Your Wave movie poster
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2019 · 95min · ★★★★☆ 7.6/10

Hinako is a surf-loving college student who has just moved to a small seaside town. When a sudden fire breaks out at her apartment building, she is rescued by Minato, a handsome firefighter, and the two soon fall in love.

Exactly what distraction is supposed to be: a world complete enough to be in, undemanding enough to rest inside.

The bridge

Hands full, head somewhere else. That's the whole goal.

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