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Films for a Rivalry Only You Know About

These films were chosen by the Moviepiq editorial team for when one sided rivalry they dont know about. No forced resolution. These films sit with the feeling rather than rush past it.

Films for the benchmark only you know about. The person you've been quietly competing with who has no idea.

You have the thing held at the right distance. Close enough to know it's real, far enough that it can't touch you directly, and the irony is the tool that maintains the gap. It is a legitimate coping mechanism and it has served you well and these films know how to work with it rather than against it. They will find you anyway, not by breaking through the detachment but by sliding in underneath it, the way the real things always do when you've gotten too good at keeping them out.

La La Land movie poster
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2016 · 129min · ★★★★☆ 8.2/10

Mia, an aspiring actress, serves lattes to movie stars in between auditions and Sebastian, a jazz musician, scrapes by playing cocktail party gigs in dingy bars, but as success mounts they are faced with decisions that begin to fray the fragile fabric of their love affair, and th

Smart enough to hold at arm's length while still doing something real. You can stay behind the glass and it will still find you.

Keeps the distance

Soul movie poster
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2020 · 101min · ★★★★☆ 8.5/10

Joe Gardner is a middle school teacher with a love for jazz music. After a successful audition at the Half Note Club, he suddenly gets into an accident that separates his soul from his body and is transported to the You Seminar, a center in which souls develop and gain passions b

It knows what you are doing and does not make you feel bad about it. The irony is part of the furniture here.

Smart enough to hold

Bohemian Rhapsody movie poster
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2018 · 135min · ★★★★☆ 7.5/10

Singer Freddie Mercury, guitarist Brian May, drummer Roger Taylor and bass guitarist John Deacon take the music world by storm when they form the rock 'n' roll band Queen in 1970. Hit songs become instant classics. When Mercury's increasingly wild lifestyle starts to spiral out o

The film has enough wit to keep your defenses comfortable and enough truth to slip through anyway.

Finds the gap anyway

Don't Be Bad movie poster
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2015 · 102min · ★★★★☆ 8.2/10

A story set in the 90s and in the outskirts of Rome to Ostia. A world where money, luxury cars, night clubs, cocaine and synthetic drugs are easy to run. A world in which Vittorio and Cesare, in their early twenties, act in search of their success.

It will not break through the detachment. It will just remind you, quietly, that the detachment is sitting on something.

Works with the coat on

Smart enough to hold the distance. True enough to find the gap in it anyway.

The Punisher: One Last Kill movie poster
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2026 · 51min · ★★★☆☆ 6.4/10

As Frank Castle searches for meaning beyond revenge, an unexpected force pulls him back into the fight.

Smart enough to hold at arm's length while still doing something real. You can stay behind the glass and it will still find you.

Keeps the distance

Let Go movie poster
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2024 · 110min · ★★★★☆ 8.2/10

A jaded mother makes a last-ditch effort to keep her family together by taking them on a trip to their teenage daughter’s pole dancing competition.

It knows what you are doing and does not make you feel bad about it. The irony is part of the furniture here.

Smart enough to hold

¿Quieres ser mi hijo? movie poster
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2023 · 100min · ★★★★☆ 8.1/10

Lu, a conformist woman in her forties, learns that her 15-year partner has been having extramarital affairs. Starting from scratch, she gets involved in an unexpected relationship with a young womanizer.

The film has enough wit to keep your defenses comfortable and enough truth to slip through anyway.

Finds the gap anyway

Gran Turismo movie poster
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2023 · 135min · ★★★★☆ 8.5/10

The ultimate wish-fulfillment tale of a teenage Gran Turismo player whose gaming skills won him a series of Nissan competitions to become an actual professional racecar driver.

It will not break through the detachment. It will just remind you, quietly, that the detachment is sitting on something.

Works with the coat on

My Father's Violin movie poster
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2022 · 112min · ★★★★☆ 7.8/10

Through their shared grief and connection to music, an orphaned girl bonds with her emotionally aloof, successful violinist uncle.

Smart enough to hold at arm's length while still doing something real. You can stay behind the glass and it will still find you.

Keeps the distance

Young Woman and the Sea movie poster
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2024 · 129min · ★★★★☆ 7.9/10

This is the extraordinary true story of Trudy Ederle, the first woman to successfully swim the English Channel. Through the steadfast support of her older sister and supportive trainers, she overcame adversity and the animosity of a patriarchal society to rise through the ranks o

It knows what you are doing and does not make you feel bad about it. The irony is part of the furniture here.

Smart enough to hold

Look Back movie poster
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2024 · 58min · ★★★★☆ 8.0/10

Popular, outgoing Fujino is celebrated by her classmates for her funny comics in the class newspaper. One day, her teacher asks her to share the space with Kyomoto, a truant recluse whose beautiful artwork sparks a competitive fervor in Fujino. What starts as jealousy transforms

The film has enough wit to keep your defenses comfortable and enough truth to slip through anyway.

Finds the gap anyway

Bingo: The King of the Mornings movie poster
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2017 · 113min · ★★★★☆ 7.9/10

1980s. Brazilian television exploding in color and auditorium programs not so politically correct. In the middle of this fervor, Augusto Mendes, a young rising actor, seeks his place in the sun. From porn studios to soap operas, he finally finds success and fame when he becomes "

It will not break through the detachment. It will just remind you, quietly, that the detachment is sitting on something.

Works with the coat on

You can stay behind the glass. They'll find you anyway.

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