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Films for When You Are Keeping Something to Protect Someone

These films were chosen by the Moviepiq editorial team for when protecting someone from a truth. No forced resolution. These films sit with the feeling rather than rush past it.

Films for when you are lying to someone you love, even if the technical word for it is protecting them.

You have the thing held at the right distance. Close enough to know it's real, far enough that it can't touch you directly, and the irony is the tool that maintains the gap. It is a legitimate coping mechanism and it has served you well and these films know how to work with it rather than against it. They will find you anyway, not by breaking through the detachment but by sliding in underneath it, the way the real things always do when you've gotten too good at keeping them out.

Words on Bathroom Walls movie poster
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2020 · 111min · ★★★☆☆ 7.1/10

Diagnosed with a mental illness halfway through his senior year of high school, a witty, introspective teen struggles to keep it a secret while falling in love with a brilliant classmate who inspires him to open his heart and not be defined by his condition.

Smart enough to hold at arm's length while still doing something real. You can stay behind the glass and it will still find you.

Keeps the distance

To All the Boys I've Loved Before movie poster
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2018 · 100min · ★★★★☆ 7.9/10

Lara Jean's love life goes from imaginary to out of control when her secret letters to every boy she's ever fallen for are mysteriously mailed out.

It knows what you are doing and does not make you feel bad about it. The irony is part of the furniture here.

Smart enough to hold

Redeeming Love movie poster
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2022 · 134min · ★★★☆☆ 7.3/10

A young couple's relationship clashes with the harsh realities of the California Gold Rush of 1850. Angel, experiencing love for the first time and facing demons unsurmountable, runs from the new life she doesn't believe she deserves. When Michael sets out to find her, Angel disc

The film has enough wit to keep your defenses comfortable and enough truth to slip through anyway.

Finds the gap anyway

The Invisible Guest movie poster
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2017 · 107min · ★★★☆☆ 6.9/10

Barcelona, Spain. Adrián Doria, a young and successful businessman accused of murder, meets one night with Virginia Goodman, an expert interrogation lawyer, in order to devise a defense strategy.

It will not break through the detachment. It will just remind you, quietly, that the detachment is sitting on something.

Works with the coat on

Smart enough to hold the distance. True enough to find the gap in it anyway.

Sing Street movie poster
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2016 · 105min · ★★★☆☆ 7.1/10

A boy growing up in Dublin during the 1980s escapes his strained family life by starting a band to impress the mysterious girl he likes.

Smart enough to hold at arm's length while still doing something real. You can stay behind the glass and it will still find you.

Keeps the distance

The Forge movie poster
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2024 · 123min · ★★★★☆ 8.3/10

19 year old Isaiah Wright lives for basketball and video games. A year out of high school, he has no job, no plans, and no idea how to be a man. At odds with his single mother Cynthia, Isaiah is given an ultimatum - to step up or move out. Feeling the pull from his friends and th

It knows what you are doing and does not make you feel bad about it. The irony is part of the furniture here.

Smart enough to hold

The Boy Who Harnessed the Wind movie poster
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2019 · 113min · ★★★☆☆ 7.3/10

Against all the odds, a thirteen year old boy in Malawi invents an unconventional way to save his family and village from famine.

The film has enough wit to keep your defenses comfortable and enough truth to slip through anyway.

Finds the gap anyway

In This Corner of the World movie poster
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2016 · 130min · ★★★★☆ 7.6/10

Japan, 1943, during World War II. Young Suzu leaves her village near Hiroshima to marry and live with her in-laws in Kure, a military harbor. Her creativity to overcome deprivation quickly makes her indispensable at home. Inhabited by an ancestral wisdom, Suzu impregnates the sim

It will not break through the detachment. It will just remind you, quietly, that the detachment is sitting on something.

Works with the coat on

Parasite movie poster
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2019 · 133min · ★★★★☆ 7.7/10

All unemployed, Ki-taek's family takes peculiar interest in the wealthy and glamorous Parks for their livelihood until they get entangled in an unexpected incident.

Smart enough to hold at arm's length while still doing something real. You can stay behind the glass and it will still find you.

Keeps the distance

Gabriel's Inferno movie poster
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2020 · 122min · ★★★★☆ 8.2/10

An intriguing and sinful exploration of seduction, forbidden love, and redemption, Gabriel's Inferno is a captivating and wildly passionate tale of one man's escape from his own personal hell as he tries to earn the impossible--forgiveness and love.

It knows what you are doing and does not make you feel bad about it. The irony is part of the furniture here.

Smart enough to hold

My Life as a Zucchini movie poster
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2016 · 66min · ★★★★☆ 7.5/10

After his mother’s death, Zucchini is befriended by a kind police officer, Raymond, who accompanies him to his new foster home filled with other orphans his age. There, with the help of his newfound friends, Zucchini eventually learns to trust and love as he searches for a new fa

The film has enough wit to keep your defenses comfortable and enough truth to slip through anyway.

Finds the gap anyway

The Longest Ride movie poster
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2015 · 128min · ★★★★☆ 8.1/10

The lives of a young couple intertwine with a much older man as he reflects back on a lost love while he's trapped in an automobile crash.

It will not break through the detachment. It will just remind you, quietly, that the detachment is sitting on something.

Works with the coat on

You can stay behind the glass. They'll find you anyway.

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