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Films for Waiting on an Apology That Is Not Coming

These films were chosen by the Moviepiq editorial team for when waiting for an apology that wont come. No forced resolution. These films sit with the feeling rather than rush past it.

Films for when the apology is not coming and you know it now, the way you know things you wish you didn't.

You have the thing held at the right distance. Close enough to know it's real, far enough that it can't touch you directly, and the irony is the tool that maintains the gap. It is a legitimate coping mechanism and it has served you well and these films know how to work with it rather than against it. They will find you anyway, not by breaking through the detachment but by sliding in underneath it, the way the real things always do when you've gotten too good at keeping them out.

Jaws movie poster
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1975 · 124min · ★★★☆☆ 6.4/10

When the seaside community of Amity finds itself under attack by a dangerous great white shark, the town's chief of police, a young marine biologist, and a grizzled shark hunter embark on a desperate quest to kill the beast before it strikes again.

Smart enough to hold at arm's length while still doing something real. You can stay behind the glass and it will still find you.

Keeps the distance

Se7en movie poster
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1995 · 127min · ★★★☆☆ 6.4/10

Two homicide detectives are on a desperate hunt for a serial killer whose crimes are based on the "seven deadly sins" in this dark and haunting film that takes viewers from the tortured remains of one victim to the next. The seasoned Det. Somerset researches each sin in an effort

It knows what you are doing and does not make you feel bad about it. The irony is part of the furniture here.

Smart enough to hold

American Gangster movie poster
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2007 · 157min · ★★★★☆ 7.9/10

Loosely based on the criminal career of Frank Lucas, a gangster from La Grange, North Carolina, who smuggled heroin into the United States on American service planes returning from the Vietnam War, before being detained by a task force led by Newark Detective Richie Roberts.

The film has enough wit to keep your defenses comfortable and enough truth to slip through anyway.

Finds the gap anyway

Guardians of the Galaxy Vol. 2 movie poster
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2017 · 137min · ★★★★☆ 8.0/10

The Guardians must fight to keep their newfound family together as they unravel the mysteries of Peter Quill's true parentage.

It will not break through the detachment. It will just remind you, quietly, that the detachment is sitting on something.

Works with the coat on

Smart enough to hold the distance. True enough to find the gap in it anyway.

Straight Outta Compton movie poster
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2015 · 147min · ★★★☆☆ 6.9/10

In 1987, five young men, using brutally honest rhymes and hardcore beats, put their frustration and anger about life in the most dangerous place in America into the most powerful weapon they had: their music. Taking us back to where it all began, Straight Outta Compton tells the

Smart enough to hold at arm's length while still doing something real. You can stay behind the glass and it will still find you.

Keeps the distance

Miracle in Cell No. 7 movie poster
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2019 · 132min · ★★★★☆ 8.1/10

Separated from his daughter, a father with an intellectual disability must prove his innocence when he is jailed for the death of a commander's child.

It knows what you are doing and does not make you feel bad about it. The irony is part of the furniture here.

Smart enough to hold

The Boy, the Mole, the Fox and the Horse movie poster
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2022 · 35min · ★★★☆☆ 7.3/10

The unlikely friendship of a boy, a mole, a fox and a horse traveling together in the boy's search for home.

The film has enough wit to keep your defenses comfortable and enough truth to slip through anyway.

Finds the gap anyway

Joker movie poster
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2019 · 122min · ★★★★☆ 8.2/10

During the 1980s, a failed stand-up comedian is driven insane and turns to a life of crime and chaos in Gotham City while becoming an infamous psychopathic crime figure.

It will not break through the detachment. It will just remind you, quietly, that the detachment is sitting on something.

Works with the coat on

Portrait of a Lady on Fire movie poster
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2019 · 121min · ★★★☆☆ 6.4/10

On an isolated island in Brittany at the end of the eighteenth century, a female painter is obliged to paint a wedding portrait of a young woman.

Smart enough to hold at arm's length while still doing something real. You can stay behind the glass and it will still find you.

Keeps the distance

The Father movie poster
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2020 · 97min · ★★★★☆ 8.2/10

A man refuses all assistance from his daughter as he ages and, as he tries to make sense of his changing circumstances, he begins to doubt his loved ones, his own mind and even the fabric of his reality.

It knows what you are doing and does not make you feel bad about it. The irony is part of the furniture here.

Smart enough to hold

Soul movie poster
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2020 · 101min · ★★★★☆ 8.5/10

Joe Gardner is a middle school teacher with a love for jazz music. After a successful audition at the Half Note Club, he suddenly gets into an accident that separates his soul from his body and is transported to the You Seminar, a center in which souls develop and gain passions b

The film has enough wit to keep your defenses comfortable and enough truth to slip through anyway.

Finds the gap anyway

Violet Evergarden: The Movie movie poster
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2020 · 140min · ★★★★☆ 7.7/10

As the world moves on from the war and technological advances bring changes to her life, Violet still hopes to see her lost commanding officer again.

It will not break through the detachment. It will just remind you, quietly, that the detachment is sitting on something.

Works with the coat on

You can stay behind the glass. They'll find you anyway.

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