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Films for Grieving Something That Has Not Officially Ended

These films were chosen by the Moviepiq editorial team for when grieving a relationship that technically still exists. No forced resolution. These films sit with the feeling rather than rush past it.

Films for mourning something while it is still in the room with you. The grief that doesn't get a support group.

You need your hands full. That is all. You need something that takes up the right amount of space in your attention, that keeps the quieter frequency from surfacing, that gives you somewhere to be that isn't inside the thing you are working around. These films are designed for exactly this kind of watching: present enough to hold you, undemanding enough to let you rest inside the story without having to perform your engagement. They will do the work. You just have to stay in the room.

The Boy, the Mole, the Fox and the Horse movie poster
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2022 · 35min · ★★★☆☆ 7.3/10

The unlikely friendship of a boy, a mole, a fox and a horse traveling together in the boy's search for home.

It holds your attention at exactly the right level. Demanding enough that the loop cannot find a foothold, generous enough that it does not feel like work.

Full hands, quiet mind

Close movie poster
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2022 · 104min · ★★★★☆ 7.7/10

Two 13-year-old boys spend an idyllic summer together, but their connection is put to the test when they become the subject of speculation at school.

Full enough to keep the front of your brain occupied. The thing you are working around will still be there later, but later is not now.

Keeps the front occupied

The Art of Racing in the Rain movie poster
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2019 · 109min · ★★★★☆ 8.5/10

A family dog - with a near-human soul and a philosopher's mind - evaluates his life through the lessons learned by his human owner, a race-car driver.

The right kind of busy. This film puts something in your hands and keeps it there until you are ready to set it down.

Right level of demanding

Monster movie poster
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2023 · 125min · ★★★★☆ 7.8/10

After an outburst at school involving her son, a concerned single mother demands answers, triggering a sequence of deepening suspicion and turmoil.

Exactly what distraction is supposed to be: a world complete enough to be in, undemanding enough to rest inside.

The bridge

Full enough to keep the loop from finding you. Just.

Josee, the Tiger and the Fish movie poster
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2020 · 98min · ★★★★☆ 7.8/10

With dreams of diving abroad, Tsuneo gets a job assisting Josee, an artist whose imagination takes her far beyond her wheelchair. But when the tide turns against them, they push each other to places they never thought possible, and inspire a love fit for a storybook.

It holds your attention at exactly the right level. Demanding enough that the loop cannot find a foothold, generous enough that it does not feel like work.

Full hands, quiet mind

Redeeming Love movie poster
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2022 · 134min · ★★★☆☆ 7.3/10

A young couple's relationship clashes with the harsh realities of the California Gold Rush of 1850. Angel, experiencing love for the first time and facing demons unsurmountable, runs from the new life she doesn't believe she deserves. When Michael sets out to find her, Angel disc

Full enough to keep the front of your brain occupied. The thing you are working around will still be there later, but later is not now.

Keeps the front occupied

Bad Genius movie poster
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2017 · 130min · ★★★★☆ 7.7/10

Lynn, a brilliant student, after helping her friends to get the grades they need, develops the idea of starting a much bigger exam-cheating business.

The right kind of busy. This film puts something in your hands and keeps it there until you are ready to set it down.

Right level of demanding

Palmer movie poster
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2021 · 110min · ★★★★☆ 7.9/10

After 12 years in prison, former high school football star Eddie Palmer returns home to put his life back together:and forms an unlikely bond with Sam, an outcast boy from a troubled home. But Eddie's past threatens to ruin his new life and family.

Exactly what distraction is supposed to be: a world complete enough to be in, undemanding enough to rest inside.

The bridge

Perfect Days movie poster
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2023 · 124min · ★★★★☆ 8.5/10

Hirayama is content with his life as a toilet cleaner in Tokyo. Outside of his structured routine, he cherishes music on cassette tapes, books, and taking photos of trees. Through unexpected encounters, he reflects on finding beauty in the world.

It holds your attention at exactly the right level. Demanding enough that the loop cannot find a foothold, generous enough that it does not feel like work.

Full hands, quiet mind

Wrath of Man movie poster
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2021 · 119min · ★★★☆☆ 7.3/10

A cold and mysterious new security guard for a Los Angeles cash truck company surprises his co-workers when he unleashes precision skills during a heist. The crew is left wondering who he is and where he came from. Soon, the marksman's ultimate motive becomes clear as he takes dr

Full enough to keep the front of your brain occupied. The thing you are working around will still be there later, but later is not now.

Keeps the front occupied

Lucy Shimmers and the Prince of Peace movie poster
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2020 · 87min · ★★★★☆ 8.2/10

Second chances start when a hardened criminal crosses paths with a precocious little girl who is helped by an angel to change hearts during the holiday season.

The right kind of busy. This film puts something in your hands and keeps it there until you are ready to set it down.

Right level of demanding

Bohemian Rhapsody movie poster
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2018 · 135min · ★★★★☆ 7.5/10

Singer Freddie Mercury, guitarist Brian May, drummer Roger Taylor and bass guitarist John Deacon take the music world by storm when they form the rock 'n' roll band Queen in 1970. Hit songs become instant classics. When Mercury's increasingly wild lifestyle starts to spiral out o

Exactly what distraction is supposed to be: a world complete enough to be in, undemanding enough to rest inside.

The bridge

Hands full, head somewhere else. That's the whole goal.

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