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Films for When the Relationship Is Fine but Something Has Left It

The Moviepiq team selected these films specifically for when the relationship is fine but something is gone. Chosen because they understand the specific weight of this moment.

Films for when everything is technically fine and the low-grade absence underneath has no name you can locate.

You are not going to talk to anyone about this. Not today. You have your reasons and they are real and you are not going to be talked out of them right now. So you are here instead, which is its own kind of decision, a way of getting close to the thing without having to say it out loud to someone who is going to respond. These films will get closer than you expect. They are not a substitute for the conversation you're avoiding, and they know it, and they will get as close as they can and leave the rest to you.

Dirty Work movie poster
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1998 · 82min · ★★★★☆ 8.0/10

Unemployed and recently dumped, Mitch and his buddy Sam start a revenge-for-hire business to raise the $50,000 that Sam's father needs to get a heart transplant.

It will not give you the tools your therapist would. It will get closer to the real question than the loop in your head has managed so far.

Gets close enough

Toy Story 4 movie poster
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2019 · 100min · ★★★★☆ 8.1/10

Woody has always been confident about his place in the world, devoted to taking care of his kid:whether that's Andy or Bonnie. But after Bonnie creates a reluctant new toy called "Forky", a road trip adventure alongside old and new friends challenges everything Woody believes abo

The film says something true at the right distance. Not advice, not instruction, just recognition of the specific thing you have been carrying.

Holds the question

Casablanca movie poster
3
1943 · 102min · ★★★★☆ 7.7/10

In Casablanca, Morocco in December 1941, a cynical American expatriate meets a former lover, with unforeseen complications.

It holds the question without trying to answer it. That is enough for right now.

Better than nothing

The Lord of the Rings: The Fellowship of the Ring movie poster
4
2001 · 179min · ★★★★☆ 8.2/10

Young hobbit Frodo Baggins, after inheriting a mysterious ring from his uncle Bilbo, must leave his home in order to keep it from falling into the hands of its evil creator. Along the way, a fellowship is formed to protect the ringbearer and make sure that the ring arrives at its

Closer than you expected. Not a replacement for the conversation, but the nearest available thing, and better than nothing.

Closer than expected

None of these are a substitute for the conversation you are avoiding. They are just the nearest available thing.

Lion movie poster
5
2016 · 118min · ★★★★☆ 8.2/10

A five-year-old Indian boy gets lost on the streets of Calcutta, thousands of kilometers from home. He survives many challenges before being adopted by a couple in Australia; 25 years later, he sets out to find his lost family.

It will not give you the tools your therapist would. It will get closer to the real question than the loop in your head has managed so far.

Gets close enough

Given movie poster
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2020 · 60min · ★★★★☆ 8.0/10

Haruki secretly had feelings for Akihiko for years, but Akihiko was still in a relationship with his roommate, the violinist Ugetsu Murata. Haruki, Akihiko, and Ugetsu's love clashes and starts to move forward.

The film says something true at the right distance. Not advice, not instruction, just recognition of the specific thing you have been carrying.

Holds the question

Mustang movie poster
7
2015 · 97min · ★★★★☆ 8.5/10

In a Turkish village, five orphaned sisters live under strict rule while members of their family prepare their arranged marriages.

It holds the question without trying to answer it. That is enough for right now.

Better than nothing

Portrait of a Lady on Fire movie poster
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2019 · 121min · ★★★☆☆ 6.4/10

On an isolated island in Brittany at the end of the eighteenth century, a female painter is obliged to paint a wedding portrait of a young woman.

Closer than you expected. Not a replacement for the conversation, but the nearest available thing, and better than nothing.

Closer than expected

The Breadwinner movie poster
9
2017 · 94min · ★★★★☆ 7.8/10

A headstrong young girl in Afghanistan, ruled by the Taliban, disguises herself as a boy in order to provide for her family.

It will not give you the tools your therapist would. It will get closer to the real question than the loop in your head has managed so far.

Gets close enough

Purple Hearts movie poster
10
2022 · 122min · ★★★★☆ 7.8/10

An aspiring musician agrees to a marriage of convenience with a soon-to-deploy Marine, but a tragedy soon turns their fake relationship all too real.

The film says something true at the right distance. Not advice, not instruction, just recognition of the specific thing you have been carrying.

Holds the question

The Second Mother movie poster
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2015 · 112min · ★★★★☆ 7.8/10

After leaving her daughter Jessica in a small town in Pernambuco to be raised by relatives, Val spends the next 13 years working as a nanny to Fabinho in São Paulo. She has financial stability but has to live with the guilt of having not raised Jessica herself. As Fabinho’s unive

It holds the question without trying to answer it. That is enough for right now.

Better than nothing

Dogman movie poster
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2018 · 103min · ★★★★☆ 8.3/10

Marcello, a small and gentle dog groomer, finds himself involved in a dangerous relationship of subjugation with Simone, a former violent boxer who terrorizes the entire neighborhood. In an effort to reaffirm his dignity, Marcello will submit to an unexpected act of vengeance.

Closer than you expected. Not a replacement for the conversation, but the nearest available thing, and better than nothing.

Closer than expected

Not the session you need. The nearest available thing.

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