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Films for Being the One They Did Not Quite Choose

The Moviepiq team selected these films specifically for when being someone elses almost. Chosen because they understand the specific weight of this moment.

Films for knowing exactly where you landed in their order of things. Close enough to understand the gap.

You have the thing held at the right distance. Close enough to know it's real, far enough that it can't touch you directly, and the irony is the tool that maintains the gap. It is a legitimate coping mechanism and it has served you well and these films know how to work with it rather than against it. They will find you anyway, not by breaking through the detachment but by sliding in underneath it, the way the real things always do when you've gotten too good at keeping them out.

Amélie movie poster
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2001 · 122min · ★★★☆☆ 6.7/10

At a tiny Parisian café, the adorable yet painfully shy Amélie accidentally discovers a gift for helping others. Soon Amelie is spending her days as a matchmaker, guardian angel, and all-around do-gooder. But when she bumps into a handsome stranger, will she find the courage to b

Smart enough to hold at arm's length while still doing something real. You can stay behind the glass and it will still find you.

Keeps the distance

Whiplash movie poster
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2014 · 107min · ★★★★☆ 8.3/10

Under the direction of a ruthless instructor, a talented young drummer begins to pursue perfection at any cost, even his humanity.

It knows what you are doing and does not make you feel bad about it. The irony is part of the furniture here.

Smart enough to hold

The Host movie poster
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2013 · 126min · ★★★★☆ 8.0/10

A parasitic alien soul is injected into the body of Melanie Stryder. Instead of carrying out her race's mission of taking over the Earth, "Wanda" (as she comes to be called) forms a bond with her host and sets out to aid other free humans.

The film has enough wit to keep your defenses comfortable and enough truth to slip through anyway.

Finds the gap anyway

Neon Genesis Evangelion: The End of Evangelion movie poster
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1997 · 87min · ★★★★☆ 8.2/10

SEELE orders an all-out attack on NERV, aiming to destroy the Evas before Gendo can advance his own plans for the Human Instrumentality Project. Shinji is pushed to the limits of his sanity as he is forced to decide the fate of humanity.

It will not break through the detachment. It will just remind you, quietly, that the detachment is sitting on something.

Works with the coat on

Smart enough to hold the distance. True enough to find the gap in it anyway.

Lucy Shimmers and the Prince of Peace movie poster
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2020 · 87min · ★★★★☆ 8.2/10

Second chances start when a hardened criminal crosses paths with a precocious little girl who is helped by an angel to change hearts during the holiday season.

Smart enough to hold at arm's length while still doing something real. You can stay behind the glass and it will still find you.

Keeps the distance

The First Slam Dunk movie poster
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2022 · 125min · ★★★★☆ 7.7/10

Shohoku's “speedster” and point guard, Ryota Miyagi, always plays with brains and lightning speed, running circles around his opponents while feigning composure. In his second year of high school, Ryota plays with the Shohoku High School basketball team along with Sakuragi, Rukaw

It knows what you are doing and does not make you feel bad about it. The irony is part of the furniture here.

Smart enough to hold

Rascal Does Not Dream of a Dreaming Girl movie poster
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2019 · 90min · ★★★☆☆ 6.7/10

In Fujisawa, Sakuta Azusagawa is in his second year of high school. Blissful days with his girlfriend and upperclassman, Mai Sakurajima, are interrupted by the appearance of his first crush, Shoko Makinohara.

The film has enough wit to keep your defenses comfortable and enough truth to slip through anyway.

Finds the gap anyway

Three Billboards Outside Ebbing, Missouri movie poster
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2017 · 115min · ★★★★☆ 8.5/10

After seven months have passed without a culprit in her daughter's murder case, Mildred Hayes makes a bold move, painting three signs leading into her town with a controversial message directed at Bill Willoughby, the town's revered chief of police. When his second-in-command Off

It will not break through the detachment. It will just remind you, quietly, that the detachment is sitting on something.

Works with the coat on

The Second Mother movie poster
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2015 · 112min · ★★★★☆ 7.8/10

After leaving her daughter Jessica in a small town in Pernambuco to be raised by relatives, Val spends the next 13 years working as a nanny to Fabinho in São Paulo. She has financial stability but has to live with the guilt of having not raised Jessica herself. As Fabinho’s unive

Smart enough to hold at arm's length while still doing something real. You can stay behind the glass and it will still find you.

Keeps the distance

Parasite movie poster
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2019 · 133min · ★★★★☆ 7.7/10

All unemployed, Ki-taek's family takes peculiar interest in the wealthy and glamorous Parks for their livelihood until they get entangled in an unexpected incident.

It knows what you are doing and does not make you feel bad about it. The irony is part of the furniture here.

Smart enough to hold

Gabriel's Inferno movie poster
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2020 · 122min · ★★★★☆ 8.2/10

An intriguing and sinful exploration of seduction, forbidden love, and redemption, Gabriel's Inferno is a captivating and wildly passionate tale of one man's escape from his own personal hell as he tries to earn the impossible--forgiveness and love.

The film has enough wit to keep your defenses comfortable and enough truth to slip through anyway.

Finds the gap anyway

Impossible Things movie poster
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2021 · 88min · ★★★☆☆ 7.3/10

After the death of her abusive husband, Matilde finds her new best friend in Miguel, her young, insecure, and disoriented neighbor.

It will not break through the detachment. It will just remind you, quietly, that the detachment is sitting on something.

Works with the coat on

You can stay behind the glass. They'll find you anyway.

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