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Films for Being the One They Did Not Quite Choose

These films were chosen by the Moviepiq editorial team for when being someone elses almost. No forced resolution. These films sit with the feeling rather than rush past it.

Films for knowing exactly where you landed in their order of things. Close enough to understand the gap.

You were almost. You know exactly where you landed in their order of things, close enough to understand the gap, far enough that it was still a no. That is a particular kind of fuel, being the almost, the one they didn't quite choose, because it leaves you with nothing to grieve and nothing to forgive and nothing to do except prove something to a person who probably isn't watching. The spite is efficient. It converts cleanly into work. These films know what it is to be passed over and they know what people do with it, and they are not kind enough to look away.

Amélie movie poster
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2001 · 122min · ★★★☆☆ 6.7/10

At a tiny Parisian café, the adorable yet painfully shy Amélie accidentally discovers a gift for helping others. Soon Amelie is spending her days as a matchmaker, guardian angel, and all-around do-gooder. But when she bumps into a handsome stranger, will she find the courage to b

Built from the same fuel you are running on right now. The conversion from feeling dismissed to doing something about it is very clean in this story.

Built for forward motion

Whiplash movie poster
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2014 · 107min · ★★★★☆ 8.3/10

Under the direction of a ruthless instructor, a talented young drummer begins to pursue perfection at any cost, even his humanity.

Characters who were underestimated and did not disappear. The spite is in the architecture of the whole thing.

Knows this engine

The Host movie poster
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2013 · 126min · ★★★★☆ 8.0/10

A parasitic alien soul is injected into the body of Melanie Stryder. Instead of carrying out her race's mission of taking over the Earth, "Wanda" (as she comes to be called) forms a bond with her host and sets out to aid other free humans.

It knows this energy and treats it as legitimate. You will feel understood before you feel better, which is the right order.

Clean conversion

Neon Genesis Evangelion: The End of Evangelion movie poster
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1997 · 87min · ★★★★☆ 8.2/10

SEELE orders an all-out attack on NERV, aiming to destroy the Evas before Gendo can advance his own plans for the Human Instrumentality Project. Shinji is pushed to the limits of his sanity as he is forced to decide the fate of humanity.

It runs on the same engine and it knows how to use it. You will recognize the feeling in here without having to name it.

Doesn't look away

Built from the same conversion you are running right now. Feeling into motion.

Dedicated to my ex movie poster
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2019 · 94min · ★★★★☆ 8.3/10

The film tells the story of Ariel, a 21-year-old who decides to form a rock band to compete for a prize of ten thousand dollars in a musical band contest, this as a last option when trying to get money to save their relationship and reunite with his ex-girlfriend, which breaks du

Built from the same fuel you are running on right now. The conversion from feeling dismissed to doing something about it is very clean in this story.

Built for forward motion

Violet Evergarden: The Movie movie poster
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2020 · 140min · ★★★★☆ 7.7/10

As the world moves on from the war and technological advances bring changes to her life, Violet still hopes to see her lost commanding officer again.

Characters who were underestimated and did not disappear. The spite is in the architecture of the whole thing.

Knows this engine

The Hate U Give movie poster
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2018 · 133min · ★★★☆☆ 7.3/10

Raised in a poverty-stricken slum, a 16-year-old girl named Starr now attends a suburban prep school. After she witnesses a police officer shoot her unarmed best friend, she's torn between her two very different worlds as she tries to speak her truth.

It knows this energy and treats it as legitimate. You will feel understood before you feel better, which is the right order.

Clean conversion

Joker movie poster
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2019 · 122min · ★★★★☆ 8.2/10

During the 1980s, a failed stand-up comedian is driven insane and turns to a life of crime and chaos in Gotham City while becoming an infamous psychopathic crime figure.

It runs on the same engine and it knows how to use it. You will recognize the feeling in here without having to name it.

Doesn't look away

Once Upon a Studio movie poster
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2023 · 9min · ★★★★☆ 8.1/10

Created for Disney's 100th anniversary, the short features Mickey Mouse corralling a gallery of legendary Disney characters for a group photo.

Built from the same fuel you are running on right now. The conversion from feeling dismissed to doing something about it is very clean in this story.

Built for forward motion

A Dog's Journey movie poster
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2019 · 109min · ★★★★☆ 8.1/10

A dog finds the meaning of his own existence through the lives of the humans he meets.

Characters who were underestimated and did not disappear. The spite is in the architecture of the whole thing.

Knows this engine

Miracle in Cell No. 7 movie poster
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2019 · 132min · ★★★★☆ 8.1/10

Separated from his daughter, a father with an intellectual disability must prove his innocence when he is jailed for the death of a commander's child.

It knows this energy and treats it as legitimate. You will feel understood before you feel better, which is the right order.

Clean conversion

Bohemian Rhapsody movie poster
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2018 · 135min · ★★★★☆ 7.5/10

Singer Freddie Mercury, guitarist Brian May, drummer Roger Taylor and bass guitarist John Deacon take the music world by storm when they form the rock 'n' roll band Queen in 1970. Hit songs become instant classics. When Mercury's increasingly wild lifestyle starts to spiral out o

It runs on the same engine and it knows how to use it. You will recognize the feeling in here without having to name it.

Doesn't look away

The fuel is real. These know how to use it.

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