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Films for Someone Who Knew You Before You Were This

These films were chosen by the Moviepiq editorial team for when someone who knew you before you became this. No forced resolution. These films sit with the feeling rather than rush past it.

Films for the person who knew you before the version you've been performing. Being near them does something destabilizing.

You need to be somewhere else for a while. That is the full situation. Somewhere that doesn't require your presence, that asks nothing, that gives you the low warmth of another world to be in without the tax of your own. The dissociation is not a problem to be solved. It is a reasonable response to something unreasonable, and you are allowed to manage it this way for now. These films are built for exactly this. They will be there and so will you and nothing more will be required of either of you.

Past Lives movie poster
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2023 · 106min · ★★★☆☆ 6.7/10

After decades apart, childhood friends Nora and Hae Sung are reunited in New York for one fateful weekend as they confront notions of destiny, love, and the choices that make a life.

It asks nothing of you. The world of this film is complete and self-contained and you can be in it without bringing anything from your actual life.

No presence required

Love, Simon movie poster
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2018 · 110min · ★★★★☆ 7.8/10

Everyone deserves a great love story, but for 17-year-old Simon Spier, it's a little more complicated. He hasn't told his family or friends that he's gay, and he doesn't know the identity of the anonymous classmate that he's fallen for online.

Warm without being demanding. It gives you somewhere else to be for a couple of hours without requiring your presence.

Soft enough to float through

Close to the Horizon movie poster
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2019 · 117min · ★★★☆☆ 6.4/10

Jessica knows exactly what her life is supposed to look like and where it takes her. But then she meets Danny. He has a complicated past and could confuse all their plans. Jessica has to decide.

The kind of film that works when you need to not be in your own head. Low-friction, full world, no performance required.

Lets you be elsewhere

The Forge movie poster
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2024 · 123min · ★★★★☆ 8.3/10

19 year old Isaiah Wright lives for basketball and video games. A year out of high school, he has no job, no plans, and no idea how to be a man. At odds with his single mother Cynthia, Isaiah is given an ultimatum - to step up or move out. Feeling the pull from his friends and th

You can float through this one. It will hold you without asking you to hold it back.

Low-friction

No analysis required. You do not have to show up fully for any of these.

A Silent Voice: The Movie movie poster
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2016 · 129min · ★★★☆☆ 6.9/10

Shouya Ishida starts bullying the new girl in class, Shouko Nishimiya, because she is deaf. But as the teasing continues, the rest of the class starts to turn on Shouya for his lack of compassion. When they leave elementary school, Shouko and Shouya do not speak to each other aga

It asks nothing of you. The world of this film is complete and self-contained and you can be in it without bringing anything from your actual life.

No presence required

Forgotten Love movie poster
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2023 · 140min · ★★★★☆ 8.5/10

A once-respected surgeon who's lost his family and his memory gets a chance at redemption when he reconnects with someone from his forgotten past.

Warm without being demanding. It gives you somewhere else to be for a couple of hours without requiring your presence.

Soft enough to float through

How to Make Millions Before Grandma Dies movie poster
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2024 · 126min · ★★★★☆ 7.8/10

M, a university dropout low on money and luck, volunteers to take care of his terminally ill grandmother, in the hope of pocketing an inheritance.

The kind of film that works when you need to not be in your own head. Low-friction, full world, no performance required.

Lets you be elsewhere

Palmer movie poster
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2021 · 110min · ★★★★☆ 7.9/10

After 12 years in prison, former high school football star Eddie Palmer returns home to put his life back together:and forms an unlikely bond with Sam, an outcast boy from a troubled home. But Eddie's past threatens to ruin his new life and family.

You can float through this one. It will hold you without asking you to hold it back.

Low-friction

Soul movie poster
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2020 · 101min · ★★★★☆ 8.5/10

Joe Gardner is a middle school teacher with a love for jazz music. After a successful audition at the Half Note Club, he suddenly gets into an accident that separates his soul from his body and is transported to the You Seminar, a center in which souls develop and gain passions b

It asks nothing of you. The world of this film is complete and self-contained and you can be in it without bringing anything from your actual life.

No presence required

The Count of Monte Cristo movie poster
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2024 · 178min · ★★★☆☆ 7.3/10

Edmond Dantès becomes the target of a sinister plot and is arrested on his wedding day for a crime he did not commit. After 14 years in the island prison of Ch--teau d’If, he manages a daring escape. Now rich beyond his dreams, he assumes the identity of the Count of Monte-Cristo

Warm without being demanding. It gives you somewhere else to be for a couple of hours without requiring your presence.

Soft enough to float through

The Father movie poster
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2020 · 97min · ★★★★☆ 8.2/10

A man refuses all assistance from his daughter as he ages and, as he tries to make sense of his changing circumstances, he begins to doubt his loved ones, his own mind and even the fabric of his reality.

The kind of film that works when you need to not be in your own head. Low-friction, full world, no performance required.

Lets you be elsewhere

No Game No Life: Zero movie poster
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2017 · 106min · ★★★☆☆ 6.9/10

Six thousand years before Sora and Shiro were even a blink in the history of Disboard, war consumed the land, tearing apart the heavens, destroying stars, and even threatening to wipe out the human race. Amid the chaos and destruction, a young man named Riku leads humanity toward

You can float through this one. It will hold you without asking you to hold it back.

Low-friction

Somewhere else. That's all you needed. Here it is.

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